I spend a lot of time driving, taking back roads through West Texas and heading up into the Panhandle. There is a certain effect produced by those long stretches of highway—particularly when classic rock music from the late 60s and 70s is playing—that allows my mind to drift. Of late, as I cover more miles, I find myself continually returning to what I refer to as the He Ain’t Heavy Gospel Message.
Occasionally a song doesn’t merely form part of the background—it actually comes up and taps you on the shoulder. At that moment, you realise that you’re not just spending your time; you’re being given a lesson. That’s exactly what happened to me when I heard The Hollies’ 1969 hit, “He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother”. Although I had heard it many times before, on those narrow roads one verse struck me more strongly than usual.
“If I’m laden at all, I’m laden with sadness
That everyone’s heart isn’t filled with the gladness
Of love for one another”</strong
Nostalgia or Longing
It was not merely nostalgia; it was the sort of sadness disciples know—the deep longing for softer hearts, for families that have been healed, and for Zion to mean more than a pleasant term used in Sunday School. This made me consider the way the Lord takes such burdens and directs them through covenants and the responsibilities of the priesthood, not in order to burden us, but so that we might learn how to support one another, just as Christ does.
That’s not just a nice thought. That’s what happens when you start to see the world through a disciple’s eyes: people everywhere, loved by God, carrying real burdens, and often just plain starving for the kind of gladness that comes from charity. And if you hold the priesthood—or even if you don’t have a title but you’ve made covenants—you’ve probably felt that same sadness:
- Why is it so hard for us to be kind?
- Why do people feel alone?
- Why do we keep hurting each other?
The restored gospel gives that sadness somewhere to go. It channels it into covenants and priesthood service—not as fancy titles, but as the Lord’s way of turning love into real action.
The long road and the covenant path
The song also describes an uncertain life:
“The road is long / With many a winding turn / That leads us to who knows where…”
That’s mortality. We rarely get the full map. But covenants turn “who knows where” into “I know Who I’m walking with.”
At baptism, Alma describes what it means to enter God’s fold. Notice how covenant language immediately becomes burden-sharing language:
- “…willing to bear one another’s burdens, that they may be light;” (Mosiah 18:8)
- “…willing to mourn with those that mourn… and comfort those that stand in need of comfort…” (Mosiah 18:9)
- “…as a witness… that ye have entered into a covenant… that ye will serve him…” (Mosiah 18:10)
That’s the “glass full” hidden inside the song: the Lord’s covenant people don’t just believe nicer thoughts. They carry each other—on purpose.
Priesthood: authorization to bless, not permission to outrank
In the Church, priesthood isn’t a badge that makes someone “more spiritual.” It’s the Lord’s authorization to serve in His name—and it only works His way.
The General Handbook teaches:
“Priesthood authority is the authorization to represent God and act in His name.” (General Handbook 3.4)
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/general-handbook/3-priesthood-principles#sec7
And it reminds us that all priesthood authority must be exercised righteously—then points directly to the Lord’s definition of priesthood leadership:
“…only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned;” (Doctrine and Covenants 121:41)
“Let thy bowels also be full of charity… and the doctrine of the priesthood shall distil upon thy soul as the dews from heaven.” (Doctrine and Covenants 121:45)
If you want priesthood responsibilities in a nutshell, here it is: use the Lord’s authority to help the Lord’s children, the way He would do it.
The He Ain’t Heavy Gospel Message
That verse—being “laden with sadness” that hearts aren’t filled with love—sounds a lot like Jesus’s own commandment and His own grief over a divided, cold world.
Jesus said:
- “That ye love one another; as I have loved you…” (John 13:34)
- “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” (John 13:35)
- So if you feel that ache when love is missing, you’re not just being dramatic. You’re noticing what Christ Himself notices.
- And the Book of Mormon is blunt about what love actually is. Mormon’s definition doesn’t leave room for performative spirituality:
- “Charity… beareth all things… endureth all things.” (Moroni 7:45)
- “Charity is the pure love of Christ…” (Moroni 7:47)
That’s why the lyric stings a little: it’s the sadness of watching people settle for less than Christlike love, and realizing that being a disciple means you can’t just look away.
Priesthood responsibilities show up most in ministering
Most priesthood service is quiet and not exactly glamorous. It looks like checking in, listening, noticing, praying, serving, and just showing up again and again.
The handbook describes ministering in covenant terms—not as a program, but as representing the Lord:
- “Ministering sisters and brothers represent the Lord.” (General Handbook 21.1)
- And then it describes responsibilities that sound exactly like that “heavy/easy” paradox in the song—real burdens, carried with love:
- “Help them strengthen their faith…”
- “Help them prepare to make and keep sacred covenants…”
- “Discern needs and provide Christlike love, caring, and service…” (General Handbook 21.1)
Priesthood doesn’t just mean ordinances. It means watching over people and strengthening them (see D&C 20:53, referenced in 21.1). It means your calendar and your attention start to look like Jesus’s. And for quorum leaders, the handbook is explicit that ministering is central—not peripheral: “Organize and oversee the service of ministering brothers…” (General Handbook 8.3.3.2)
Covenants that train the heart to love
Covenants aren’t just a list of rules. They’re a way to train your heart. The temple endowment teaches covenants like obedience, sacrifice, the gospel, chastity, and consecration. And that last one—consecration—is pretty much the opposite of being selfish. It’s a promise to give what you have and who you are to the Lord’s work and His people.
That’s how the Lord grows the kind of people who can honestly say, in real life, “He ain’t heavy.”
What to do with the sadness (priesthood-shaped next steps)
If that lyric feels a little too real for you right now, here are a few covenant-and-priesthood ways to act on it—without burning out:
Turn sadness into prayer for charity.
Mormon doesn’t say “try harder to be loving.” He says pray to be filled:
“Pray… that ye may be filled with this love…” (Moroni 7:48)
Carry one specific person on purpose.
Not everyone. Just one. Maybe a ministering family, a lonely quorum member, or a youth who’s drifting. Live Mosiah 18 in a way you can actually see and measure.
Use priesthood influence the Lord’s way. This is the He Ain’t Heavy gospel message.
If you’re a father, quorum member, or leader, measure your priesthood by D&C 121: gentleness, persuasion, love unfeigned—not pressure.
Stay on the covenant path in the Church anyway.
The world’s shortage of love isn’t proof the gospel failed. It’s proof we need Jesus even more. Keep taking the sacrament, keep ministering, keep showing up. Christ can make your “heavy” holy and your “laden” meaningful:
- “Come unto me… and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)
- “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:30)
The song’s best line isn’t just a catchy motto. It’s a call to real covenant living. In the Lord’s Church, priesthood responsibilities and covenants are how God turns our longing for a more loving world into something real—one home, one quorum, one visit, one prayer, one burden at a time. It is the He Ain’t Heavy gospel message.
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